Embrace or erase it – which wedding traditions will you go for?

Wedding celebrations are stacked with traditions. I’ve been to weddings where the couple has embraced them all, and celebrations where the rules have been thrown out or changed up completely. The cool thing is that whatever traditions you want to include, if your day reflects who you are, then it’ll go off with a bang.

When you’re planning, you can pick and choose the traditions that you like, and which ones don’t work for you. Let’s have a look at the pros and cons of some of the biggies.

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The entourage

Although we are all used to seeing bridesmaids and groomsmen in matching gear supporting the happy couple, many people now skip the bridal party altogether. If this doesn’t appeal, there are a few ways to mix it up:

  • ditch the matching gowns and suits and have them wear what they feel comfortable in

  • choose a few select people to take on the responsibilities of the maids and groomsmen but have them attend as guests

  • Get ready before the wedding (or play golf) with a few of your faves, then wave them off and tell them you’ll see them there

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The white dress

Innocence and purity? The white dress is a tradition that endures, and many brides have dreamt about THAT dress for a long time. If that’s you, innocent or not, then go for it. For those who are going for a different vibe, then the world is your oyster. The options are endless, and you’re outfits on the day are the perfect way to express who you are.

The bouquet toss

You only have to look at Youtube to see where the bouquet toss can go horribly wrong. The tradition of throwing the bride’s flowers to see who catches it – and who will marry next – is a bit of fun at the reception and often makes for entertaining photos. If you’re not keen on interrupting your dance party or risking a pile-up, then this is one you can take or leave.

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Avert your eyes

Originating from arranged marriages, lots of people still believe that for the bride and groom to see each other before the ceremony is bad luck. It does add to the anticipation and makes that ‘first look’ moment extra special on the day. But for some, they want to make the most of their day and spend more of it together. Other couples choose to get ready together or meet before the ceremony for a few photos – and to take the edge off the nerves.

The late bride

This one is not really a tradition, but often people think that it is traditional for the bride to be late to the ceremony. While I wouldn’t recommend being early, being on time, or a couple of minutes late is a safe bet. Your groom and all your friends can’t wait to see you, so get the party started! 

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